“Dear Babbzy,

I have been married for 20 years.  Sounds like a long time but I am only 38 years old I got married very young.
My problem is my husband.
Really, he is just a dead beat and I am at the stage where I want to leave him.
He has a gambling problems
Drinking problems
He refuses to work.
We have lost so many houses because he just does not want to help out with any thing.
We have no children and I wanted some but I cannot see myself doing all with no help.
Is it bad to give up on my marriage after 20 years?”
TWENTY YEARS… gyal.. yuh good.. not me and that shit..Drugs?  Gambling?  HELL NO….